How My Mother Began Her Very Own Civil Rights Movement (with a crab apple) Friday, Jul 11 2008 

When momma was born in 1925

Negros/blacks/AfricanAmericans were not allowed to go to school with white people.  Please read:  “The Reign of Walter Plecker” at http://www.melungeons.com/articles/blueridge.htm

 

and the “The Virginia Act to Preserve Racial Integrity of 1924” (an era in which my bff, best friend forever, Alexander Cambias, Sr. would like ALL of America to return).  Here at

 

  http://www.eugenicsarchive.org/html/eugenics/index2.html?tag=1239

 

Although black or (mullato) as described in Plecker’s Census, momma’s family lived rather well.  Even regarding today’s standards her family consisting of twelve, not including their parents, OWNED a 200 plus acre farm in Pittsylvania County, Virginia.  Today the Land belongs to great-great-great Grandfather’s “heirs forever” and in use by the KKK.

 

Momma and her siblings often told stories of their life in the rural south.  Lives of pleasure & pain, pride & prejudice and a lot of hard work captured them there at the foot of the Blue Ridge Mountains.  We give a “glimpse” into the history in “My People Were Fishermen” and “Ten Things My Mother Taught Me and Other Myths of the Black Community” archived  here, at  www.PoppiShirley’s Weblog.

 

 Our Family were big story tellers,  they taught us basically, how to think, act and react to life through their stories, rhymes, fables and “jus plain lies” .They would sit and talk hours upon hours reminiscing over their younger days on Mobley Creek Farm.  To us, a living room full of wide-eyed kids, they were larger than life itself, they WERE our Life Surrounded by this great big family circle during our many gatherings while they ate, laughed, sang songs, told tales and secrets and gave us, as children, the essence of our heritage, through story and song.

 

Did I mention here that included in this circle were my Great Aunties and Uncles, there were 12 of them, my cousins, last count around 150 and, my own siblings, numbering in the thousands at supper time.

 

 When we were young, and still had a sense of humor, our lives, to me, were great.  I never felt “black” or “ignorant” untill I went to school and “learned” of all my “inadequacies” concerning the brilliant shine of my skin.

 

There, within the love and warmth of this great family, there was “perfection”.

 

They tell the story of long ago (sorry mom) of how a large group of them (not including their many friends of the community) were WALKING to school one day, talking laughing, being themselves (entertaining) and eating newly plucked crab apples from one of their MANY fruit trees, when the white children came RIDING by on (they) schoolbus.

 

 As the bus blew dustily past them, a white kid rolls down his window, sticks his head out and spits at them.(!)

 

Moma (being My Moma and not even knowing it yet) IMMEDIATELY flings a crab apple into the bus.  The many baseball games played in their yard on Sundays as kids had given my momma an arm the MBL would be envious of today because the crab apple whizzed right through the open window, straight up the aisle, and splat! exploded into a green mess beside the window (and head) of the startled bus driver. 

You go MA!

Confused as to the effect and not the cause of the crime, the bus driver slams on his breaks bringing now a cloud of Virginia red clay to dance in the air and smack the faces of  the, now stopped in their tracks children, on their way to school. 

 

A Big, (white) now red faced man swung open the bus doors stepping  down, hands on hips, bellows loudly,

 

WHO THREW THAT CRAB APPLE IN THE BUS! He demanded, holding ample hips.

 

At once {frightened, still to this day, one crab in the barrel in the crowd} offered up my mother’s name.

 

Behind her {her brother}, proclaimed,

 

THEY SPAT ON US.

 

Given this –piece of forensic evidence-, the bus driver spoke, (dropping hands from heavy hips)

 

Well, I tell you what, -THE NEXT TIME ONE OF THEM SPITS ON YOU I’M GONNA STOP THE BUS AND MAKE’EM walk, AND DON’T YOU THROW NO MORE APPLES IN THAT BUS!

 

Well, as the story goes, weeks passed without further incidence, however, Time and Attention were not fully paid, when one day, again, a window rolls up and a wad of spit lands, again, at the feet of children, on their way to school.

 

Immediately, a big heavy foot slams rubber to metal and the bus comes to a screeching halt of iron, flying white folks and dust.  The doors swing open and a crest-fallen young white boy emerges hands- in- pockets and walks drudgingly, alone, down the road. 

 

Never molested again by spit on their way to school, most went on to gain their prospective (and much coveted) sixth grade education. 

 

“Ignorant” by standards my mother -didn’t raise no fools-. 

 

I can see my mother, standing there in her laced up boots of the 1920’s, clean dress with ribbons in her hair, teeth clenched, fist balled and working up a “black sweat”.

 

  All the while knowing her rightful “place”, at the Table of Kings and Queens. That day, she has taught us, too, she REFUSED to give an inch to the “Study of Stupidity”. 

Surrounded (supported) by her family my mother drew a line in the proverbial Virginia sand, eh, ur, red clay that day.

 

Proud, beautiful and strong, still, at the age of 83, my mother has been the greatest influence in my life and in the lives of many others.

 

This past year my mother had the opportunity to meet Nelson Mandela just before he celebrated his 90th birthday.  She spoke to him of her own “private battles regarding racism in America” –“America Denied Me an Education”, she told him.  I am sure, as sure as I am black that  HE came away “enlightened” by my mother.

So, the next time you see a (“green”) apple in the grocery store, think of

 

How My Mother Began Her Own Civil Rights Movement

(with a crab apple).

 

And start one of your own.

 

Stop Complaining!  Start A Revolution!!!!

 

A Group Project-

http://burlingtonaa.wetpaint.com/?t=anon

 

contact:

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Tuesday, Sep 8 2009 

feeling "powerful"

chilli pepper mango marketing Thursday, Sep 3 2009 

Go get a fresh mango and throw a liberal glob of chilli pepper and
sea salt on it.

Sounds absolutely disgusting, right?

It’s NOT.  In fact, it’s rather amazing, and the unusual
combination of flavors will light up your mouth with a relatively
low calorie treat that will surprise and delight you.  It’s also
got a liberal dose of antioxidants and vitamins.   And it’s SIMPLE.

Trust me, you’ll love it.

My Music Thursday, Sep 3 2009 

Twitter This! Monday, Aug 31 2009 

To utter a succession of light chirping or tremulous sounds; chirrup.
To speak rapidly and in a tremulous manner: twittering over office gossip.
To giggle nervously; titter.
To tremble with nervous agitation or excitement.
VERB:
tr.
To utter or say with a twitter: twittered a greeting.

What Are Your Doing?

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Danville, Virginia native, Hope Coleman has written her first novel in E-book form entitled The Haunting. This self-published novel is her first work. The book not only details her journey from her southern roots to the still untamed beauty of her beloved Vermont. It also probes questions of her past through her character “Kalya Strange”. A past she knows through a large and gregarious family.
Through her childhood she experiences “dreams” and “visions” and one “encounter” that sets her on a lifelong course to discover her mysterious ancestry ad one especially troubling question. How does a 12 year old boy of Portuguese descent suddenly “appear” in the household and among the “belongings” of a slave master in early 1800’s?. Further, who are the Ebony, blue-eyed people of Madison, NC who call themselves the Goinstown Indians, here before the discovery of Christopher Columbus and are they her true ancestors?.

“All of us inquire throughout our lifetimes Who am I? The author says, her character goes one step further and actually finds out. Answering questions. Discovering more.

Ms. ColEman uses her inherited quick wit to take her audience into the pages of her book to show the close and personal sides of her character.

Against the backdrop of the at once the “Dirty South” and then to the breathtaking beauty that is Vermont, Ms. Coleman’s THE HAUNTING is a bold step toward her “ancestral apparitions” , and comes face to face with not the “ghosts” of her past but the spirit, souls and minds of those whose voices her mind refused to allow her to ignore.

Ms. Coleman writes a blog @WordPress.com. http://poppishirley.wordpress.com(c). Awarded Who’s Who on the Web, (2008), Best Among WordPress (July, 2009), and Best Black Blog @1blcspot.com (July 2009). She is also Webmaster for The National Registry of Christian Church Mothers.com http://sites.google.com/site/christianchurchmotherscom/

A grandmother of three K.J., Kaleb, and Kaitland, Ms. Coleman enjoys traveling, cooking and dinner among friends as her likes. She is Danvilles chairman for UNICEF and says she likes using her gifts to bring awareness to the devastating war in Darfur, Africa, esp. in the form of humanitarian aid and clean drinking water.

 

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I Dreamed. . . Sunday, Aug 30 2009 

That Barack Obama held me closely and kissed me madly…

that the United States had a majority in Congress and passed a National Healthcare Bill. . .

and

that My throat was covered in thousands of fish scales . . .

I have got to remember to turn the tv off before bed.. . …

-poppishirley (c)

Kenny Latimore does Aretha Franklin Friday, Aug 28 2009 

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xjL1tIG4YRQ Friday, Aug 28 2009 

GIRL WITH BIRD Thursday, Aug 27 2009 

SHE SITS ALONE IN A WINDOW

A Red Bird is perched on a limb outside

The world is frozen

Her heart is warm.

The train is coming.

Her love on board.

He is her heart beat, the blood that rushes through her veins.

He is her heart, her heart.

Her heart is warm.

It is cold outside.

The train derails.

Her lover dies.

She sits alone in a window.

A Red Bird perched on a limb outside.

He is her heart.

Her heart is warm.

It is cold outside.

 

-poppishirley (c)

Keep Living Thursday, Aug 27 2009 

Whenever someone raised themselves up and pronounced that they would or would not allow themselves or others to do, my Grandmother Mary Elizabeth Strange would say, “Keep Living”. 

It meant if you lived long enough that one day time and circumstance, death, taxes and cheating husbands would happen to us all.  “Keep living” she’d say.

God has said that He would turn our captivity, that those things that the devil meant for our bad, that he would turn it around and make it for our good.  Our job is to to like Grand mama said, “Keep Living”.

–thanks for reading

-poppishirley

Divine Comedy Tuesday, Aug 25 2009 

My first grandchild KJ was a wonder to me.  I prayed for him in church one Sunday.  Sitting halfway the pews , I asked God to Bless my children, to let me live to see them grow up.  They were about 8, 10 and 12 at the time. 

God always gives you over exceedingly above all, we  could ask or think on April 24, 2003 gave me the most beautiful grandchild I could ever ask for.  I took him for his first visit outside and he would stick his head out of the blankets to look all around him at the world of birds chirping and the Carolina blue sky.  I gave him his first tickle and he smiled for the first time for me.  Oh what a privilege!

Not having had a baby in the house for nearly 20 years, I was taken aback at all the bottles, diapers, and whatall associated with having a baby in the house.  When ever he stayed with me, he was keep pristine, –I cannot say the same for my home.

When he cam into his terrible twos, I decided to take him down to my moms where he could see the baby chicks, eat grapes from off the grape vine and run around a big yard with the family dog, bear.

At times though my precious child knowing that his grandmother was drastically out of her area and that he truly had the upper hand when it came to his own child rearing he took total advantage of the situation that entire weekend.

He whined, yelled, sulked, threw tantrums and invariably kept me running as if I was Edith Bunker and Archie had just come home and someone had been sitting in his chair.

When my precious little boy left that afternoon, I was uprighting chairs and scraping something indescribable off the walls when my mother came to the steps and said, “honey, there’s someone on the phone for you”  I whirled Tasmanian devil style (bottom twisting, head staying still) and yelled, MOMA CAN’T YOU SEE I’M CLEANING UUUUPPPPP!!!!!!!!!

–thanks for reading

-poppishirley (c)

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